Sunday, 25 September 2016

How To Study Like Paris Geller

Hello!

I am starting back at university tomorrow so doing a 'How to Study' post seemed appropriate. Whilst Rory's style seems the most likely one to take inspiration from, I believe that you can learn a lot from Paris too

1) Have A Plan
Now, Paris plans to the extreme but knowing what you need to get done and breaking down big tasks into smaller ones can really save a lot of stress and keep you on track. Why not try a planner? Set out your week and add to your schedule everything you need to get done- it doesn't just have to be study related. Make sure you factor in free time, meal times and times for socialising time too!


2) Use A Sensible Font
Sometimes your papers will be graded on presentation, especially at college/university- make sure you use a font that is easily readable and looks professional. This sounds trivial but it will really set you up for the future!


3) Believe In Yourself
One thing Paris rarely lacks is self-belief. She knows what she wants and she believes she can get there meaning she studies with confidence. You can do anything you set your mind to! And even if things don't work out quite they way you want (like when Paris doesn't get accepted by Harvard) always believe that you can make lemonade from life's lemons- you are stronger and braver than you think...shape your life the way you want to!


4) Get A Study Buddy
Whilst Paris knew she could work well on her own, she also shared some workloads with Rory. Bouncing ideas off someone else can open your work up to new viewpoints and ideas which could ultimately improve your grades! Even if you just listen to a friend and choose not to make any changes to your work based on their opinions, it is always good to know someone is there to help if you need it!


5) Have A Hobby
Paris loved her craft table when she started at Yale because it gave her a break from all that work. Taking breaks to do something fun and relaxing is always a good idea- find something you love and don't be afraid to take some time out for yourself!


6) Talk Things Through
Whether you're stressed about work or your personal life, being able to talk things through is always a good idea. Don't bottle things up- the chance are you're not the only one feeling what you do!



7) Don't Be Afraid To Debate
Paris was very argumentative but being prepared to debate, particularly in class will not only impress your tutors but will improve your own work in the long run as you'll get more comfortable with debating with other students/academics/ideas.



8) Make The Most Of School/College/University
Whilst at times it can feel endless, your time in education really is fairly short so make the most of it before you have the responsibilities that come with adulthood. Try new things, make great friends and gather wonderful memories!

9) Be Dedicated
If you want to succeed, you need to be dedicated to whatever you're doing. Paris knew what she wanted and she worked for it. Trying your hardest is always a good option!


10) Edit! Edit! Edit!
Re-reading your work and making sure there are no typos is key! Not only will it really improve your writing but your tutors will appreciate it enormously!

A Thousand Yellow Daisies,
Dotty x

Sunday, 18 September 2016

10 Lessons We Learned From Sookie St James

Hi!

Gilmore Girls just wouldn't be the same without the fun-loving, accident prone, adorable, chef extraordinaire Sookie St James. We all waited with baited breath for the news that she would be returning for the revival (and, if you're anything like me!) squealed with delight when she finally announced that she would be going home to Stars Hollow!

But more than just being entertaining, there are a lot of life lessons we gained from Sookie St James. Here are my top ten!

1. Being there for your friends is important...even if you don't know what to say!

 Even though Sookie wasn't always the best at advice talks, Lorelai always went to her when she had a problem because she knew she could count on her best friend. Being there for those you care about doesn't mean you have to give magazine worthy Agony Aunt style responses to everything they say- sometimes just listening and lightening the mood is enough. And, if you're stuck for responses, use soup as a distraction technique!

2. Food should be enjoyed not fussed over
As a chef, food is important to Sookie and she is an advocate for just enjoying what you eat rather than meticulously calorie counting and portioning to the extreme. In today's society, health consciousness has become an obsession. Whilst eating well is important, so is enjoying the experience of cooking and eating!

3. Confidence is key
Sometimes you just have to have a little belief in yourself. Instead of focussing on what you perceive to be flaws, try focussing on everything that makes you beautiful. Feeling so hot you could hit on yourself will fill you with confidence to face the day ahead!

4. Girls can make the first move
This is 2016 not 1916- it is totally fine for a girl to make a move on a guy first. Lots of guys admit to liking confident girls so why not take the chance- you might just find the Jackson to your Sookie!

5. Stressing out before a first date is totally normal!
You're hair is almost done, you're dressed to the nines and you are waiting for that moment when you have to leave the house and meet your date. And then you start panicking and before you know it, you're convinced the worst will happen. Just breathe and know everything will be okay. Even if you goof out and can only manage to say "hi" repeatedly like Sookie, you're date is probably feeling just as nervous!

6. Love doesn't have to be complicated
 
Even though Sookie couldn't quote Shakespeare she knew it was romantic because she felt it and kept it real. Love shouldn't have to be complicated. As long as there's Romeo and Juliet, the rest is all just blah blah blah
 
7. A little innuendo can lighten the mood
When Lorelai was anxious about the size of the house, Sookie lightened the mood with a little innuendo. Whilst this isn't always appropriate, sometimes a small joke can go a long way!
 
8. Never name food
Naming leads to attachment. Attachments make it hard to let go. Don't name cakes Clyde or you'll feel bad for letting them go.
 
9. Emotions aren't black and white
 
Sometimes you just can't sum up how you feel in one word. In such situations, it's totally acceptable to make up entirely new words...smad, hangry...the list goes on.
 
10. Celebrate your friends success
 
One of life's greatest pleasures is celebrating the successes of the ones you love...just don't get so excited you accidentally start a fire!
 
 
A thousand yellow daisies,
Dotty x
 

 


Sunday, 11 September 2016

Where to find a wedding dress like Lorelai Gilmore's

Hello!

With all the rumours circling the revival (and all the hopes for a Luke-Lorelai wedding!) I couldn't help but wonder if it was possible to get a wedding dress like Lorelai's in real life. Whilst I couldn't find an exact match, here are my top three suggestions if you are hoping to add a little Gilmore to your special day!



Option 1. What? Floral and Beaded Strapless Satin and Tulle Wedding Dress
Where? http://www.topwedding.co.uk/pet-floral-and-beaded-strapless-satin-and-tulle-wedding-dress-hswdh2077.html
Cost? £167.85




















Option 2.
What? Open Backed Striped Wedding Beachfront Gown Sweetheart Neck
Where? http://www.prombee.com/seniors-curvy-striped-sleeveless-wedding-second-marriage-gown-bustles-strapless-th53535591.html
Cost? $145.99




















Option 3.
What? A tulle A-line dress accentuated with embroidered lace and 3D flowers scattered lovingly throughout the lace overlay. A ruched tulle band at the neckline sweeps round to the flattering lace up back.
Where? http://www.findyourdreamweddingdress.co.uk/dresses/sweetheart/6058-sweetheart/
Cost? £762




















A thousand yellow daisies,
Dotty x

Sunday, 4 September 2016

There's going to be a Gilmore Girls festival... and we couldn't be more excited!

Hello!

If, like me, you dream of stepping through the TV screen into the magical world of Stars Hollow every time you watch/re-watch Gilmore Girls then you're luck is in!

Between October 21st and 23rd, fans will get the chance to make their dreams come true in Washington Depot, CT (said to be the inspiration for Stars Hollow) at the Gilmore Girls Fan Festival. What makes this festival even more magical is the fact that it is being run by fans, meaning there will be no over-commercialisation, just pure Gilmore Girls fun!

If you are dreaming of going, here is what you can expect:
  • A town troubadour
  • Screenings of the Pilot and Finale
  • Friday night dinner
  • Coffee-a-plenty
  • Tea at the Mayflower
  • A Knit-a-thon
  • Cake tasting
  • Book readings in the bookstore
  • A dance recital
  • Antique shopping
  • and much more!
And if the event couldn't get more incredible, the festival will also be attended by Jackson Douglas, Rini Bell, Aris Alvarado, Biff Yeager, Kelly Bishop, Yanic Truesdale, Vanessa Marano, Ted Rooney and Rose Abdoo (squeal!!!!).

Now, whilst not everyone can get to the festival (me included!), I'm sure the Instagrams of this event will be wonderful!

A thousand yellow daisies,
Dotty

(For more information: http://www.gilmoregirlsfanfest.com)